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Ain't that the truth

Upon hearing my porn casting director email story, a co-worker said to me:

"Adults need pornography like children need fairy tales"

Apparently this is some famous quote... who said it? I can't find it. So maybe it isn't a famous quote and she made it up. In any case, ain't that the truth...

Exposed

Wow. Never have I had so many emails, voicemails, and/or web traffic since PerezHilton.com linked to my Candis Cayne video last week. I've got work people emailing, as well as random folks from across the country and, get this, a porn studio casting director. This of course was the most interesting of all the emails.

Yup. That's right. Skinny ol' me getting an email from a casting director asking some not so frank questions about what I like to do. LOL! And while it was all flattering, it simply is not an option I can take at this point in my life for any number of reasons. So, instead I offered to do something not on film, perhaps a "bakcstage blog" type of deal or something. Who knows. I just don't need to be fired from my job to do a few porn movies before being washed up and left having to find a job as good as the one that I have right now. Fun? I'm sure it is. But, worth it? Not unless I get paid $25k a movie and am contracted to do 8 movies. Though the idea of being naked in front of a camera is intriguing...

I guess I kind of feel exposed. But, I guess that was the point of the blog all along: To expose my thoughts, my daily goings-on, and my life to people I don't know. For me, its a form of therapy. Although it does become a little interesting when certain people get a hold of your blog address.

NYC Pride

It's Pride Weekend here in New York!! Woohoo!! Out enjoying the festivities with friends old and new. Aaron is in town for the weekend, and Stephen also stopped down on his way to moving his stuff from Boston to his new place Uptown.

Photos and videos to come from today's parade as soon as I recover. LOL!!

Thanks Perez!

A woman I work with at a vendor my company uses just called and left a voicemail for me at work. Apparently, Perez Hilton had linked to my blog for his readers to catch a glimpse of Candis Cayne. Well, since then, traffic to my blogged has spiked beyond belief.

Just wanted to say thanks for link, Master P!! I'll grab you a drink next time you're in NYC.  :)

Another new phone

So, I caved in... I said I would never get one, but then I had one delivered to me overnight via FedEx. I'm talking about a BlackBerry, specifically my new BlackBerry 7130c that arrived from Cingular today. I haven't put the thing down. I even installed AIM on it. I'm the newest Crackberry addict this side of the East River.

I'm doomed.

Boston Pride '06

Or as the weekend was more affectionately known by my friends: "Boston Pride where Gary is trashed by 3pm, puking by 4p and passed out by 5p."

Ah, yes... the joys of being debaucherous with Nasty Girls, LLC, and now Team Svedka. And what a debaucherous time it was. So much so that I embarrassingly became so intoxicated, I threw up at a restaurant (luckily made it to the bathroom, but not without my crew noticing WHY I was rushing there. LOL), saw friends that later I didn't remember seeing, and slept Saturday night away. So sad. I did get to see a bunch of old faces, and meet someone very VERY important to my dear Robert's heart. Jonah is quite the charmer. While I should hate him for trying to move Robbie out to Oregon, I just don't think I can. I think they're coming to visit me this weekend (I hope so!!) and I am looking forward to it.

I stayed with Jonathan for the weekend after my 825p flight was later delayed to 1230a, thus defeating the entire purpose of flying. When I got to J's place, we just crashed. Well, cuddled and crashed. For those of you who don't know, J is the guy I was crushing on as I was moving away from Boston right about this time last year. Talk about really poor timing in meeting someone really great. Anyway, it was so great to see him and be able to spend time with him again. While the energy was a bit awkward between us, it still made me really happy to be around him again.

Sunday... Oh My God! First off, it was gorgeous weather. I had a great brunch with Josh B. and he took me to where him and his bf are going to be moving to in Southie. Didn't get to go inside, but its a brand new place in a great location so I am very excited for them. I met Jonathan at Fritz for a drink and then we headed off to the Stuart Street Block Party where one of my best friends was opening for Tracy Young. Jason to me, but DJ JST to all of you, was FUCKING AMAZING! His set was great, he was having a ton of fun, and the crowd was definitely feeling his energy. I met Jason two years ago when he was just getting started in all of this and seeing him on stage Sunday bought tears to my eyes; he's definitely going somewhere fast and I am super-excited for him. His mom even came out and was dancing with all of his friends. I just can't describe in words the energy and emotion it gave me. Jason is another one that will keep me missing my days in Boston.

I was supposed to go home Sunday night on the bus, but was convinced to stay until Monday morning. So, this morning I hopped on a plane from BOS to JFK and was into work by 1115a. Barely late (ha! if you know me, you know 1030 is early for me. LOL!!) Tonight was posting pics and resting... much needed rest after 8 days of travel the first 12 days of June.

Tired at JFK

Damn weather delays... I should have taken the bus!!

Back to Boston

So, I'm flying back to Boston after work tonight. It's Pride Weekend there and one of my good friends, DJ JST, is opening for Tracy Young at Sunday's Block Party. I want to be there to support him and give him some love; he's going to be amazing and I don't want to miss this big leap in his DJ career.

It's also going to be a Nasty Girls, LLC reunion with Robert & Stephen... and apparently there are a few other honorary members that I've yet to meet. I'll also get to see some other people that I missed during Memorial Day weekend, as well. I'll be staying with Jonathan, my last Boston crush, which will be nice since I haven't seen him since last September. And on Sunday, brunch with Josh will get me started for a day of dancing with DJ JST at the block party. 

Photos to come... and I promise to post some Gay Days videos when I get back, too.

One Mighty Party

Made it back from Orlando alive and kicking today; just a little bit tired. After 5 days of sun, sand, pool parties, dancing, theme parks, circuit boys, fireworks, after-hours dancing, circuit boys (yes, I said it again) I am whipped. And I've got pictures and movies of everything (check the sidebar for the new album in a few days).

Brian and I left Thursday morning and made our trek to JFK Airport for the ride down to Orlando where we were meeting Aaron and his friend John. John, turns out, is INSANELY hot. Who knew these tan-bodied, big-chested, cute-faced Minnesota boys existed? Well, now you all know. HA!

The gist of trip: Overflowing Mannequin's at Pleasure Island on Thursday night; Reunion Pool Party I on Friday afternoon and Beach Ball Friday night; Reunion Pool Party II on Saturday afternoon with Simone Denny performing, One Mighty Party with Gloria Gaynor and Tony Moran spinning at MGM, and Abel spinning at the Arabian Nights afterhours; Reunion Pool Party III on Sunday with Kristine Q and Parliament House with Lisa Lisa and Kim English performing (separately, of course) on Sunday night.

The details were basically dance music, hot circuit boys, dance music, hot djs, hot hot circuit boys, overweight divas, dance music, super sexy Kristine W, and circuit boys. LOL!! Gay Days in Orlando is just so hard to describe. Take a look at the pictures and upcoming videos I'll be posting to get an idea.

Janet Jackson is back

New single released to radio June 19th... stay tuned.